"The recommendations in
When Parents Part are wide-ranging, incisive, and candid . . . Lots of sound practical advice . . . Should command the attention of adults touched by separation and divorce . . . Leach has made a compelling case that when the family unit is broken, separated partners must do everything in their power to attend to the needs of their children, treat them like people rather than possessions, and commit to mutual (but not necessarily equal) parenting."
--Glenn C. Altschuler,
Psychology Today "
Important . . . Leach thoughtfully structures the book, beginning with a breakdown of how children perceive, and are affected by, their parents' separation at various ages, from baby to young adult. This structure allows the parents to jump right in and begin finding answers. Other, less-immediate family members receive the same consideration, and Leach provides an overview of legal and practical considerations before turning to the second part of the book, 'Separating Better--or Worse.' The author makes sure to maintain a child-centered approach, and she explores how to reinforce that approach in the face of alienation, partner conflict, and the processes of making a parenting plan and putting it into action. She also explores post-divorce difficulties and the constantly changing dynamics between parents and their children.
Leach strikes the right balance between a hard-nosed examination of the data and a compassionate, let's-make-this-work pragmatism. This will allow parents to shore up their children's stability when it may feel like everything else is crumbling down."
--Kirkus Reviews
"Leach encourages couples considering divorce to employ a 'child-centeredness' approach and consider each child as an individual. Her advice addresses a wide array of topics . . . The ample information offered here serves as a solid foundation for the steps Leach recommends."
--Publishers Weekly